PITT STUDENT ASKS ALUMNI WHAT THEY REGRET NOT DOING IN COLLEGE

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By MAX LEISTEN

The fear of missing out in college is real—there are countless opportunities, from extra classes to sports, clubs, and social events. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the pressure to do it all, worried that saying no to something might lead to regret later on.

A student at Pitt recently turned to alumni for advice, asking about the biggest regrets they had during their college journey. One response stood out, reminding the student that academics and career goals, while important, aren’t everything. The alum emphasized the value of friendships and personal relationships, highlighting how those connections often shape the most meaningful college experiences.

This perspective was a powerful reminder of why they’re there in the first place—to grow, connect, and create memories that last far beyond graduation.

Keep it simple,

Max

The "ask"

Hello, I’m a current student at Pitt-Johnstown. I’m reaching out to you today because I’m curious about your experience at Pitt. I’m wondering if there’s anything you regret not doing during your time at the university. If you could go back, what would you have done differently? Was there a class you wish you would have taken, someone you wish you would have met, or a party you wish you’d gone to? Thank you so much for your time and insights.

The "give"

Hi there. My experience at Pitt was different from many people because I was married, already had a degree from another University and was pursuing a second degree. So, I was only on campus for classes, I worked nearly full-time and wasn’t involved on any extra activities. I was able to form a friendship with another student in the same situation, and we are still friends today – almost 40 years later.

Based on my earlier experience at college, I’d say if you are able, go to the sporting events, join a club that interests you and try a class that’s completely outside your comfort zone – even if it’s pass/fail. It’s much easier to stay in touch these days with social media, so if you find a small group of real friends, try to keep in touch.

During my first University experience, I took a non-credit sign-language class from community college at night, because I knew a deaf person and wanted to be able to speak to him. I found my wife at that class, so it was the best class I took in school. You never know what a random choice might do for you.

If I went back, I’d try to keep in touch with more of the people I was friends with during that time. I’m sure over the years you still lose touch with some; but keeping a few true friends is a great thing.

College is a great time to try new things and drop the things about yourself that don’t fit into who you want to be.

Best of luck in your journey. Go Pitt!

The follow-up

Thank you for the response. In my academic career I have found it is so easy to hyper-focus; strategically planning and living in the next month. But budgeting every half-hour of your day doesn’t leave much room for self-enrichment, nor failure.

Your experience has certainly helped to remind me why I am here in the first place.

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